New York Times bestselling author M. Gary Neuman is a practicing licensed counselor and ordained rabbi who offers a caring, no-nonsense approach to issues in marriage, family, and personal growth. He has appeared many times on Today, the View, NPR and many other programs. Oprah referred to Gary as, "One of the best psychotherapists in the world," on his final (11th) appearance on her show.

The Reconnect to Love Intensive Program

M. Gary Neuman offers an all day or multiple day, strictly confidential marriage counseling experience that is tailor-made to the needs of the couple. Couples experience wonderful, immediate success as they work with Gary to understand their unique marital style, the ways in which their deeper selves impact their goals, and redirect their energy into proven, clear techniques that allows them to Reconnect to Love. Gary offers follow up sessions via skype/phone as well as individual sessions.

Typically, Gary will meet with the couple at the start of the day and then spend 2-3 hours with each spouse alone. This alone time gives both spouses the opportunity to evaluate themselves, their past and how they can personally understand the impact of their actions in the marriage. Only then can they each commit to using this insight to make their marriage significantly better. Gary believes that in order to have real change, there has to be deeper understanding as to why we behave the way we do so we can learn to make new, healthier choices for ourselves. During the last part of the day, Gary meets with the couple together and outlines a specific, practical plan based on the day’s learning and insights, for changing the marriage and getting it to work best for both spouses. Reconnect to Love Intensive Program counseling often takes place in Gary’s office in Miami although Gary does travel to other locations as well, and makes himself available via Skype or iChat for remote counseling.

To contact Gary and discuss or schedule a confidential Reconnect to Love Intensive Program, send an email to him at

Here are some comments from Reconnect to Love Intensive Program participants:

“Gary is a gifted healer. I am a self proclaimed skeptic when it comes to therapy. Gary was literally our last hope. After finding out that my husband was having an affair I felt we had no other option but to take a chance and spend some time doing therapy with him. We read his book together. I felt encouraged by the way he researched men so thoroughly, felt his road map to healing was brilliant , yet until we spent time with the man , and I witnessed an amazing transformation before my eyes of my husband I could not have believed it. The strategy of spending hours alone and together with Gary is revolutionary. Often it takes hours of peeling back layers in order to discover deep truths or intentions. We took his lead and saw him on three separate occasions. Each time I wondered what else we could possibly cover. Having him as both of our advocates was huge; he has a way of making both the husband and wife feel safe and empowered and related beautifully to us both. I have hope for the future, understand so much more, and feel confidant that with Gary in both of our corners we will continue to heal. He truly does G-ds work: he heals the soul. We are eternally grateful.”—A.B., Chicago

“When my wife discovered my affair I immediately appreciated the ton of hurt I brought to our marriage. To say we were in crisis is an understatement of the highest order. I knew we could depend on our three decades of being a couple as the basis of attempting to move forward but I also understood we would need help and insight to recover from the consequences of the affair. When my wife suggested we visit Gary for an entire day I almost rejected the idea out of hand. An entire day spent discussing our marriage and my reasons for stepping out of our marriage? No way! Thankfully, on further reflection (and with the knowledge I really had no option), I agreed to go. From our first moments with Gary I sensed we had come to the right place. Gary’s ability to cut to the chase and his way of quickly pointing out the sense and nonsense of my statements to him allowed me to see how to begin to make amends to my wife while growing into a better man and husband. I cannot recommend Gary’s full-day sessions more strongly. I am a very busy guy with a million different things competing for my attention. To focus on our marriage and on me for an entire day under Gary’s guidance without outside distraction is to begin to find the way to a better marriage. I feel incredibly fortunate that we met Gary. My wife and I are well on the way to a better marriage and life together—and I thank Gary Neuman for that.” S.P. California.

“I was watching ‘The Oprah Show’ one day, feeling like my life had come to an end, or maybe I wanted it to, and Gary Neuman started to speak. His words penetrated my heart and as the topic was “cheating,” my interest was overwhelming. Both my husband and I fell into this category. We contacted Gary and because of him, my life is emerging and I am connecting to my inner self (hard to say beauty), believing there are possibilities.
 I have been examining how my painful, life experiences have shaped me and most especially, my part in my marriage. I am trying to de-personalize the lies, cheating and deceptions that were perpetrated against me and by me. 
 I cry; I am raw and open; I am able to smile, frown, yell, curse, scream and… never for a split second feel judged or less of a person. Gary, your direct and open communication is brilliance and your truth, genius.
 Gary, as I try to express my profound gratitude for what you have enabled me to accomplish and the depths I have reached, words are insignificant and diminish the enormity of who you are and the meaning you give my soul. I couldn’t have survived these days without you – pure and simply true.”—L.K., New York

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