Comments for The Official Website of Author M. Gary Neuman http://mgaryneuman.com Fri, 04 Nov 2011 18:26:50 +0000 hourly 1 Comment on KARDASHIAN DIVORCE-WHY CELEBS FAIL AND WHAT WE CAN LEARN FROM IT by mgaryneuman http://mgaryneuman.com/kardashian-divorce-why-celebs-fail-and-what-we-can-learn-from-it/#comment-1737 mgaryneuman Fri, 04 Nov 2011 18:26:50 +0000 http://mgaryneuman.com/?p=387#comment-1737 You are so right as always, Vicki. Something else we can all learn about our own relationships. You are so right as always, Vicki. Something else we can all learn about our own relationships.

]]> Comment on KARDASHIAN DIVORCE-WHY CELEBS FAIL AND WHAT WE CAN LEARN FROM IT by Vicki http://mgaryneuman.com/kardashian-divorce-why-celebs-fail-and-what-we-can-learn-from-it/#comment-1724 Vicki Thu, 03 Nov 2011 20:37:56 +0000 http://mgaryneuman.com/?p=387#comment-1724 Isn't it also a question of whose life you are going to live...his or hers? Sometimes roles in a marriage aren't challenged but when they are or there is role-reversal happening or needing to happen, it can put a whole new spin on life, marriage and values. It was always obvious that Kim was going to lead her life. That Kris was so obtuse here was almost surprising. Life is interesting. Isn’t it also a question of whose life you are going to live…his or hers? Sometimes roles in a marriage aren’t challenged but when they are or there is role-reversal happening or needing to happen, it can put a whole new spin on life, marriage and values. It was always obvious that Kim was going to lead her life. That Kris was so obtuse here was almost surprising. Life is interesting.

]]> Comment on Oprah Show-When Can You Tell a Child Her Parent Is Wrong by Ms. crisanta mussett http://mgaryneuman.com/oprah-show-when-can-you-tell-a-child-her-parent-is-wrong/#comment-857 Ms. crisanta mussett Wed, 25 May 2011 18:02:52 +0000 http://mgaryneuman.com/?p=335#comment-857 Thank you for sharing, I raised a young girl from ages 5 to 12 years her mother my niece took her back in 2008, I fought for custody but dropped the case, this child needed to know her mom. You mentioned a book called Invaluable on the Oprah show last Friday, when will it be out, was that correct. Cordially, Crisanta Mussett Thank you for sharing, I raised a young girl from ages 5 to 12 years her mother my niece took her back in 2008, I fought for custody but dropped the case, this child needed to know her mom. You mentioned a book called Invaluable on the Oprah show last Friday, when will it be out, was that correct.

Cordially, Crisanta Mussett

]]> Comment on WHY DOES MY HUSBAND KEEP TELLING ME ALL OF THE THINGS HE DOES FOR ME? by Christina Carabini http://mgaryneuman.com/why-does-my-husband-keep-telling-me-all-of-the-things-he-does-for-me/#comment-837 Christina Carabini Wed, 25 May 2011 06:27:41 +0000 http://mgaryneuman.com/?p=327#comment-837 Of course these interests are just examples and there are those couples who enjoy everything that their spouse enjoys. For the rest of us we need to be dedicated to trying harder to show interest in the things that are near and dear to our spouse. Of course these interests are just examples and there are those couples who enjoy everything that their spouse enjoys. For the rest of us we need to be dedicated to trying harder to show interest in the things that are near and dear to our spouse.

]]> Comment on Oprah Show-When Can You Tell a Child Her Parent Is Wrong by Susan Raisch http://mgaryneuman.com/oprah-show-when-can-you-tell-a-child-her-parent-is-wrong/#comment-795 Susan Raisch Fri, 20 May 2011 15:11:26 +0000 http://mgaryneuman.com/?p=335#comment-795 I also think it's a good question but in the circumstance of abandonment -- or any other cruel behavior -- I think it's critical to be clear with kids that it's not their imagination. Their hurt is so deep that it's important to say that the hurt is justified. When parents do such hurtful things it's confusing. I think that acknowledging that a parent was wrong can be very liberating for a young child. I would add that when a child is told that a parent's behavior may be a result of "sickness," I would follow up with the assurance that the child is a different person, i.e., they will not necessarily become like their "sick" parent. Is that correct? It was a helpful Oprah segment. Good job. I also think it’s a good question but in the circumstance of abandonment — or any other cruel behavior — I think it’s critical to be clear with kids that it’s not their imagination. Their hurt is so deep that it’s important to say that the hurt is justified. When parents do such hurtful things it’s confusing. I think that acknowledging that a parent was wrong can be very liberating for a young child. I would add that when a child is told that a parent’s behavior may be a result of “sickness,” I would follow up with the assurance that the child is a different person, i.e., they will not necessarily become like their “sick” parent. Is that correct?

It was a helpful Oprah segment. Good job.

]]> Comment on Oprah Show-When Can You Tell a Child Her Parent Is Wrong by lylla childress http://mgaryneuman.com/oprah-show-when-can-you-tell-a-child-her-parent-is-wrong/#comment-794 lylla childress Fri, 20 May 2011 14:45:38 +0000 http://mgaryneuman.com/?p=335#comment-794 I agree that one must be honest with the kids and let them know that the parent's behaviour is wrong. My Mom abandoned us (we were 7,6,4) after her divorce (my Dad had cheated) and we kids never understood why she had to leave us and live her life without us - it felt like we were punished for their misbehavings and she just wanted to forget her pain and her married life to my Dad of which we were a part. I still to this day dont understand how she cld just leave us in such a messy situation, alone without emotinal support. We felt worthless and 49 yrs later still tear up thinking about the pain. I agree that one must be honest with the kids and let them know that the parent’s behaviour is wrong. My Mom abandoned us (we were 7,6,4) after her divorce (my Dad had cheated) and we kids never understood why she had to leave us and live her life without us – it felt like we were punished for their misbehavings and she just wanted to forget her pain and her married life to my Dad of which we were a part. I still to this day dont understand how she cld just leave us in such a messy situation, alone without emotinal support. We felt worthless and 49 yrs later still tear up thinking about the pain.

]]> Comment on RESOLUTION 2011: CONNECT TO LOVE by ANCHORS IN WEBSITE LIST http://mgaryneuman.com/resolution-2011-connect-to-love/#comment-277 ANCHORS IN WEBSITE LIST Sat, 12 Feb 2011 06:59:31 +0000 http://mgaryneuman.com/?p=300#comment-277 Can I just say what a relief to find someone who actually knows what theyre talking about on the internet. You actually know how to bring an issue to light and make it important. Far more people have to read this and understand this side in the story. I cant feel youre not more well-liked since you actually have the gift. Can I just say what a relief to find someone who actually knows what theyre talking about on the internet. You actually know how to bring an issue to light and make it important. Far more people have to read this and understand this side in the story. I cant feel youre not more well-liked since you actually have the gift.

]]> Comment on RESOLUTION 2011: CONNECT TO LOVE by mgaryneuman http://mgaryneuman.com/resolution-2011-connect-to-love/#comment-271 mgaryneuman Thu, 10 Feb 2011 04:36:59 +0000 http://mgaryneuman.com/?p=300#comment-271 Thanks. Thanks.

]]> Comment on CONNECT TO LOVE-ARE YOU RUNNING OUT OF TIME IN YOUR LOVE? by mgaryneuman http://mgaryneuman.com/connect-to-love-are-you-running-out-of-time-in-your-love/#comment-270 mgaryneuman Thu, 10 Feb 2011 04:36:36 +0000 http://mgaryneuman.com/?p=290#comment-270 thanks, I'm always trying to find clear practical ways for people to better their relationships and find out through my research where to place one's energy. thanks, I’m always trying to find clear practical ways for people to better their relationships and find out through my research where to place one’s energy.

]]> Comment on Linda-What Another Couple did to Save My Marriage by mgaryneuman http://mgaryneuman.com/linda-what-another-couple-did-to-save-my-marriage/#comment-269 mgaryneuman Thu, 10 Feb 2011 04:34:24 +0000 http://mgaryneuman.com/?p=241#comment-269 thanks, will check into it. come back soon, new video tomorrow. thanks, will check into it. come back soon, new video tomorrow.

]]>